Comments on: Parenting and Running: Finding the Balance https://runblogger.com/2014/07/parenting-and-running-finding-the-balance.html Running Shoes, Gear Reviews, and Posts on the Science of the Sport Tue, 05 Aug 2014 15:06:35 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=5.7.12 By: Peter Larson https://runblogger.com/2014/07/parenting-and-running-finding-the-balance.html#comment-1129784247 Tue, 05 Aug 2014 15:06:35 +0000 http://runblogger.com/?p=4831#comment-1129784247 In reply to Bjarke Rosenbeck.

Gotta keep the family first!

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By: Bjarke Rosenbeck https://runblogger.com/2014/07/parenting-and-running-finding-the-balance.html#comment-1129774422 Thu, 31 Jul 2014 13:57:30 +0000 http://runblogger.com/?p=4831#comment-1129774422 Thanks for a very important subject. I find myself in the dilemma quite often. But as I get “used” to it I feel that I have learned to choose my daughter and family.

Best regards
Bjarke

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By: Peter Larson https://runblogger.com/2014/07/parenting-and-running-finding-the-balance.html#comment-1129764586 Thu, 24 Jul 2014 20:31:39 +0000 http://runblogger.com/?p=4831#comment-1129764586 In reply to eric.

Yep, can be really tough, but finding that balance is critical.

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By: eric https://runblogger.com/2014/07/parenting-and-running-finding-the-balance.html#comment-1129763176 Wed, 23 Jul 2014 22:58:18 +0000 http://runblogger.com/?p=4831#comment-1129763176 I completely share your sentiments about balancing life family and running. I just took 4 days off because of travel and family concerns and these tend to happen far more often then when I was single in college running for a team where my life was running. Now I have struggled to find that balance to even just return to the sport. I asked my wife the other day what she would feel if I came home fro. 9 hours at work then go spend 2/hours running daily like I used to and her jaw just dropped. Its hard.

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By: Robert Osfield https://runblogger.com/2014/07/parenting-and-running-finding-the-balance.html#comment-1129756884 Sat, 19 Jul 2014 14:32:19 +0000 http://runblogger.com/?p=4831#comment-1129756884 In reply to Peter Larson.

I’ve used the rule of thumb that if I can run a particular distance over a weeks training then I can run that same distance during a single race.

So to run a marathon, running 26 miles in a week is sufficient, to run a 50K then running 31 miles in a week is fine.

For my 95 mile race the most I managed in a week was 85 miles, this was the exception though, my average weekly mileage was around 50 miles/week during the six months running up to the race. The idea that you have to run big mileage, and big long runs to run ultra’s is just not supported by my own experience.

They biggest stumbling block runners have with ultras is going out too fast and then suffering. If you go out nice and easy and eat and drink regularly, walk the hills they can be remarkably pleasant affairs.

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By: Peter Larson https://runblogger.com/2014/07/parenting-and-running-finding-the-balance.html#comment-1129756877 Sat, 19 Jul 2014 14:21:21 +0000 http://runblogger.com/?p=4831#comment-1129756877 In reply to Sarah @RunFarGirl.

I’ve always wanted to be a morning person, we’ll see! Challenge for me is now that my two older kids are interested in staying up later, I get night duty. Makes it tough!

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By: Peter Larson https://runblogger.com/2014/07/parenting-and-running-finding-the-balance.html#comment-1129756876 Sat, 19 Jul 2014 14:20:25 +0000 http://runblogger.com/?p=4831#comment-1129756876 In reply to Robert Osfield.

Thanks as always Robert, I actually re-read your comment on my post last year about dropping from the Vermont 50K. Always good advice, and you’re right, I think I could probably do the race and have fun on my current mileage with a max long run of around 15.

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By: Peter Larson https://runblogger.com/2014/07/parenting-and-running-finding-the-balance.html#comment-1129756871 Sat, 19 Jul 2014 14:19:04 +0000 http://runblogger.com/?p=4831#comment-1129756871 In reply to Suzanne LeBlanc.

Thanks so much Suzanne!

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By: Sarah @RunFarGirl https://runblogger.com/2014/07/parenting-and-running-finding-the-balance.html#comment-1129756638 Sat, 19 Jul 2014 10:55:19 +0000 http://runblogger.com/?p=4831#comment-1129756638 Always a challenge to find balance between the running, racing and the blogging about it all. I have to always be aware of where my husband is “at”. Marathon training and those 3 hour long runs are a lot. I do most of my training in the morning before 7am. It’s not the most fun, but after doing it for a couple years I’ve become a morning person. Thankfully he is working on his masters degree, so after the kids are in bed we are both clicking away at the computer getting work done.

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By: Robert Osfield https://runblogger.com/2014/07/parenting-and-running-finding-the-balance.html#comment-1129756436 Sat, 19 Jul 2014 07:40:19 +0000 http://runblogger.com/?p=4831#comment-1129756436 I have worked from home for 13 years now, and having a family with three children means that school holidays can be a bit of challenge to get work done.

W.r.t fitting in racing and training, I ran my first really long ultra at the end of June (the 95 mile West Highland Way Race) and did most of my training runs before lunch or just after getting up in the morning. The only really long runs I did in the six months before the race were a marathon and 53 mile ultra. The long runs I did in training were all in the 13 to 15 mile range, which is short even for marathon training. Most weeks I got in two of these runs though.

My race went really well so despite relative short long runs was able to perform well. For a 50k race I’d not worry much at all about getting lots of really long runs in, half marathon distance would be fine.

I think the key to making modest long runs work is avoiding a high carb diet and running fasted. The combination means that your body will be burning more fat throughout the whole day as well as your runs. It takes a little adaptation time to shift across from burning predominately carbs to predominately fats but once you have achieved it the stress on needing really long training runs is diminished.

Getting up early is something I do naturally, but I’d caution about getting less sleep to do so. Sleep is enormously important to mental and physical health. So if you are going to get up earlier make sure you adjust the time you go to bed and get to sleep to compensate.

Another way to manage the sleep would be to consider napping for 20 minutes after lunch. This would really help you feel fresh and give your brain some time to diffuse itself.

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By: Suzanne LeBlanc https://runblogger.com/2014/07/parenting-and-running-finding-the-balance.html#comment-1129755981 Fri, 18 Jul 2014 22:59:15 +0000 http://runblogger.com/?p=4831#comment-1129755981 Pete.. just the fact that you are posting this shows what an unselfish father and husband you are..no matter what it will all work out. Your wife and children are very blessed. I was so thankful to have met you and the gait analysis last week..you helped so very much..continue to put one foot in front of the other…keep being the dad and husband you are. Now just breathe!!

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By: Michael https://runblogger.com/2014/07/parenting-and-running-finding-the-balance.html#comment-1129755946 Fri, 18 Jul 2014 21:40:54 +0000 http://runblogger.com/?p=4831#comment-1129755946 In reply to Michael.

And I sure as hell ain’t gonna start getting up at 4:30 to get my runs in. Insanity! I mean, that’s cool if you do that, but that’s not for me.

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